Tuesday, October 30, 2012

http://yourbookstartshere.wordpress.com/author/catharinebramkamp/

Social Media is like Sex in the Seventies. by Catharine Bramkemp


Remember the seventies (and if you don’t, I’m terribly sorry)?
smiley face from the seventies
Like Me!
Remember when  promiscuity was permissible?  Even lauded?  And how the minute we all become adept at random acts of coupling sans last names, guides suddenly appeared dedicated to telling us how to do this better.  It no longer was just a casual, natural act.  Sure it was fun, but was it enough fun?  Were others having MORE fun?  Take this Cosmo quiz to find out.

Then experts weighed in, studies funded, discoveries  advertised.  Just when we were enjoying ourselves, we were informed about goals and statistical comparisons. Panic and doubt wedged into our happy Eden (some even resorted to monogamy)  New parts were discovered, new erogenous zones were mapped and published.  We searched for our g spot which at the time was almost as important as increasing our Klout and Google rankings.
And it all came to screeching halt by an unlikely virus.

And there is the single difference.  Unlike sex in the seventies, social media depends on viral behavior, that’s how it reproduces, and we help it along.
There is not such thing as monogamy in social media.
Just like the seventies.

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Monday, October 22, 2012

Holding my breath with anticipation for the publication of HARD MONEY. The time is near, I feel it in my bones. Thanks to Mike Taylor at Spicy Broccoli for being the only company to even look like producing a H.M. cover. The road to completion has been a long and winding one. Hopefully, the end is in sight!

Thursday, October 18, 2012



Hi, welcome to author blog, #?... God only knows! What on Earth does a maiden author, maiden blogger and an unknown writer have to blog about you ask? The predictable answer is the moving journey from a vanilla short story and poetry writer to illicit author. Aaaah, no! There will not be any self-indulgent drivel here. This blog will attempt to tease and please as well as being led, and dominated, by you the reader.

What do you want to know? Ask a question and I will endeavour to answer, or have it answered for you. As my book is about the sex industry all questions of a sexual nature are welcome, as are health, emotional, and spiritual concerns. Expert opinions and advice will be sought for each enquiry. Do you have unusually long labia, small penis, huge clitoris, or giant testicles? Email your fears and concerns;  no subject will be taboo.

A ‘Fascinating Facts’ file will be updated weekly and contributions are invited. A place will be provided for professional sex workers to post their own short stories – ‘non-pros’ are also invited to post their fantasies and stories.

Most writers’ blogs appeal to other writers, whereas this blog is intended for you the reader. All suggestions and requests for additions will be considered.

PERSONAL RANT:
For freelancers and service providers.

To date there have been three graphic artists who contributed to the delay of the creation of the book’s cover. Obviously, this is holding up publication. Fingers are crossed for completion by next week, although I won’t be holding my breath!

If nothing else, the hunt for a cover has been a deep learning curve. The result of this frustrating experience is that all sourcing requirements for future projects will be kept exclusively in Australia.

Free advice for freelancing professionals: Keep your clients apprised of your progress. Regular communication is vital when dealing with the ‘beloved’ endeavours of paying customers. Furthermore, keep your emails polite and professional at least until you are familiar with your client. Asking a question like, “Deal or no deal?” at the end of an initial quote is off-putting. Yes, a graphic artist applying for a job actually wrote that in his second email.

With the recent influx of Indy writers on the scene, jobs for various freelancing professionals abound, as do the service providers themselves. After a couple of attempts to employ editors and graphic designers, I realised that talent and skill are not sufficient for a successful creative coupling.

The key elements beyond skill and knowledge are superior communications and listening. Without understanding the client’s requirements, a successful outcome is almost impossible. As a freelancing service provider, your creative talents will be better served by use in a controlled and firmly directed manner. From the outset, ascertain your client’s preference for artistic control to remain with them or be placed in your (undoubtedly) capable hands.

If you accept a job from a client with a firm vision of the end-result, you must deliver the closest possible rendition of their brief that you are capable of providing. Save the freewheeling creative out-put for undecided clients or your private projects.



Wednesday, October 17, 2012